Archive - The Reclamation Era

Redacted Has Been Launched!

Read the first anonymous divorce essay, with so many more to come.

Jun 11 •

The Case for Divorce

And why it makes people so uncomfortable

Jun 2 •

May 2025

For all the kids who graduated without honors. . .

Please stand to be recognized

May 27 •

How I Plan to Unf*ck My Nervous System

Spoiler alert: It's a bundle of delicious contradictions.

May 19 •

How "Cassandra Complex" hijacked my nervous system

Cassandra is alive and unwell, silent all these years.

May 14 •

Today is my favorite day of the year.

It's Listen To Your Mother Boulder today!

May 4 •

April 2025

Dear Midlife Woman: Nobody is Looking Out for You

You're on your own kid—you always have been.

Apr 30 •

The open tabs in my brain

There are so many, you guys. So, so many.

Apr 24 •

The great re-wilding

From midlife reckonings to front yard meadows

Apr 14 •

Redacted: What Divorced Women Aren't Telling You

Introducing a new project + call for submissions

Apr 7 •

March 2025

The Tortured (Single) Parents Department

Dispatches from the crying days.

Mar 31 •

I hired a co-parent

The reality of single motherhood and what it means to have a wife

Mar 24 •

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