Yes yes yes! We need this series of essays like we need air and water, omg. Even over here in my “the kids are launching. We did it. We survived.” Era, it’s a crazy contrast, a crazy push pull, a crazy effort to be a whole human and a parent. Because, newsflash, they don’t become self-sufficient just because a calendar says they’ve hit 18 years old. And also, newsflash, I wouldn’t want that. Not at all. I am so happy to have these deep relationships with my now-adult children, but it’s not effortless work, and consciously finding ways to put my own needs on the agenda is a thing I continue to have to work at.
Let’s talk this week about figuring this out! Would love to figure out a way to collaborate and share the work. It’s such an important topic!
Yes, let's absolutely talk about this. I think there is so much to showcase on this topic and I bet we can create a beautiful, meaningful collaboration. ❤️
LOVE this! My inspiration song when I was deep in the pit post-separation was "Lose Yourself," by Eminem, particularly these lyrics: "Success is the only motherfucking option. Failure's not." I'll send you some more of my writing on this specific subject.
Also I don't think this sculpture is glorifying selflessness... I mean, just look at the lady.
I agree. I think the caption I read waaaay misinterpreted it. She's bent over with despair. So is her baby.
Yes yes yes! We need this series of essays like we need air and water, omg. Even over here in my “the kids are launching. We did it. We survived.” Era, it’s a crazy contrast, a crazy push pull, a crazy effort to be a whole human and a parent. Because, newsflash, they don’t become self-sufficient just because a calendar says they’ve hit 18 years old. And also, newsflash, I wouldn’t want that. Not at all. I am so happy to have these deep relationships with my now-adult children, but it’s not effortless work, and consciously finding ways to put my own needs on the agenda is a thing I continue to have to work at.
Let’s talk this week about figuring this out! Would love to figure out a way to collaborate and share the work. It’s such an important topic!
Yes, let's absolutely talk about this. I think there is so much to showcase on this topic and I bet we can create a beautiful, meaningful collaboration. ❤️
So grateful for your vision and inspiration!
LOVE this! My inspiration song when I was deep in the pit post-separation was "Lose Yourself," by Eminem, particularly these lyrics: "Success is the only motherfucking option. Failure's not." I'll send you some more of my writing on this specific subject.
Yes!! My teenager adores that song, FYI, and so do I. ♥️
I find Eminem very inspiring
Me, too. And yes—aside from the misogyny!
* besides all the misogyny
You're awesome!
Thank you, my friend!
All I have to say is “here, here!” And yes. Yes to ambivalence and rage and insecurity and regret and love.
You are my forever kindred spirit on this. 🫶
I have a couple essays I'd love for you to consider (neurodivergent family). But not sure what I'm missing as I don't see how to message you lol
Email them to me! steph.iz@hotmail.com
Thank you!